Why Don’t Kids Skip Grades Anymore?


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Hi Reader,

Why Don’t Kids Skip Grades Anymore?

It’s not that it never happens...
But it’s much rarer than it used to be. Here’s why:

  • School is about more than just academics​
    Emotional maturity matters just as much as reading level. It's important we give kids a safe place to learn before we send them off into the real world.
  • Friendship + social skills = critical learning​
    Moving ahead can disrupt peer relationships and confidence

So why not skip if they’re ahead?​
A 2016 report from Johns Hopkins found:

“Between 15% and 45% of students enter the late-elementary classroom each fall already performing at least one year ahead of expectations.”

That’s a wide range—but still staggering.
➡️ About 1 in 3 kids may already be ready for the next grade.
➡️ Yet only about 1% ever skip - In fact in my 10 years teaching, I've only ever known about one child skipping a grade, and it was a very long process to get approved.

Why?​
Because today’s schools focus on in class accommodations and long-term development.

  • Challenging work doesn’t have to mean skipping a grade​
    Teachers provide enrichment, deeper thinking, and flexible groups meet kids where they are
  • Older students have more options​
    In middle and high school, kids can take advanced math, AP courses, and more
    ✏️ Based on ability, not age
    ✏️ Without rushing through school...Because do you really want a 17 year old doctor to be working on you?

The goal?​
To Raise confident, capable learners who are college and career ready—not just quick finishers.

What do you think about kids skipping grades?

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