When Should Kids Start Reading?


"Who's to say, I can't do everything? Well I can try..."

Upside Down by Jack Johnson

๐ŸŽ’Last Chance to Save! Save $15 on any Kindergarten School Talk Workshop session. Expires tonight!

Hey Reader!

When you hear people compare schooling around the world, one sticking point is when countries start teaching their students to read.

On the early side- you hear about The United Kingdom starting reading instruction at age 4.

On the late side- countries like Finland and Denmark wait until children are as old as 7.

The United States starts around age 5, when children enter kindergarten.

You start to wonder if waiting is better...and then you find out your nephew picked up a book at age 3 and started reading ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ So maybe it's not bad to start young?

My best friend is Dutch (they don't teach reading til age 6-7)- she's told me many parents are frustrated by this long wait. Their kids are ready to read at ages 4-5.

So maybe starting early is good?

Alas, just like many of the things discussed in The K Delay- it truly depends on the child and the environment they've been raised in.

Here's my argument:

It's not when they start to read; it's what kids are doing before they learn to read.

In preschool, children will learn "reading behaviors."

This means they know how to use a book, how to listen to a story, and understand that an adult is reading the words on the page (rather than making it up)

There's no expectation your child knows how to read when they enter kindergarten. But there is an expectation your child spends a lot of time around books so they learn to read.

We could sit and compare all day, but the bottom line is this:

The best readers are growing up in literacy rich environments. They are being read to daily. Older ones may read on their own. They visit the library. When relatives come over, they gift books.

Not sure if one year of preschool will be enough for your baby? The K Delay is a course designed for this decision. Learn more here!โ€‹

What's New?

๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿซ Back to School: Open House? Meet the Teacher? Make a great impression by asking these questions! I teamed up with my favorite speech pathologist, Sydney Bassard to make 6 questions to ask when you meet your child's teacher. Get it hereโ€‹

๐ŸŽŸ๏ธ Workshop Sale!: This is the lowest I discount tickets! Charlotte friends: if you're thinking about applying your future kindergartner to magnet, charter, or private schools next year then you've got to attend! Save $15 with code: backtoschoolโ€‹

Things I Love

๐Ÿ‡ณ๐Ÿ‡ฑ What I brought my Dutch bestie! I'm visiting The Netherlands right now. I met my best friend because she lived in the US during high school. Now I'm so lucky to go visit her and her 1 year old daughter. Of course Auntie Natalie had to stuff her suitcase with American goodies. Here's what I brought the girls!

For My Bestie:

โ˜€๏ธ This subtle self tanner gives my legs a warm glow. Easy to use, and doesn't stain! Wal-Mart / Amazonโ€‹

๐Ÿ‘€ My fav cooling under eye gel to get rid of dark circles

๐Ÿ’ She loves a craft, so I brought her this flower kit. Best part is you can make it again and again.

For Her Daughter:

โ˜•๏ธ Mom makes a racket with her coffee maker every morning- so I got her daughter her own espresso maker! Now she can get in on the fun without being burned. Wal-Mart / Amazonโ€‹

๐Ÿฐ My heart is so warm knowing her daughter still sleeps with this every night. I brought it last summer, so of course Auntie Natalie had to bring back ups! You can't get these in Holland

๐ŸŒท I insist my little Dutch niece has a tulip outfit! Luckily this line makes clothes in the same patterns year after year. So I can get variations in the same tulip fabric as she grows.

Have a wonderful week friends โค๏ธ

When did your child start to read?

Primary Focus Newsletter

Learn about the latest news in education and tips to help your kids thrive in elementary school. Delivered to your inbox every Tuesday. Primary Focus was founded by Natalie Parmenter, a former kindergarten teacher to guide parents through elementary school. We provide information that is often common knowledge to teachers but is not widely known among parents. Primary Focus is dedicated to enlightening parents on all things elementary school so their children can thrive.

Read more from Primary Focus Newsletter

"Here I am baby, signed, sealed, delivered, I'm yours" Signed, Sealed, Delivered by Stevie Wonder Quick Links: ๐Ÿ“š Double Story time! Fri 10/9 at Betty's and Sat 10/10 Story Time Costume Party at Batch House! ๐ŸŽ Early Bird Ending! Workshop Early bird discount ends TODAY. Save $10 with code: early10 Hello hello Reader, I remember when I was in 5th grade and I got my first C. Progress reports were sent home, and after years of being an A / B student, my math grade had slipped. When I got home, I...

"It's my party, and I'll cry if I want to" It's My Party by Lesley Gore Hey Reader! This weekend is my birthday! I'm so honored to turn 36 this weekend. I experienced a lot of joy, pain, and life lessons at age 35. I'm ready to take that wisdom on to my next age. The Joy: Anytime I got to swim, I had some really really good laughs this year, traveling far and wide to see my friends & family, sweet moments with my husband, and I got to meet so many of you this year! The Pain: I tore my calf on...

This is a special edition email for Charlotte, NC subscribers. If you have a friend that's interested, you can forward it to them. Please do not copy + paste, post, or publish elsewhere. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ’จ It's been a week Reader! If you tuned in to the School Board Meeting last night it was a real shocker no one could have predicted. Before I dive in, if you need a refresher on what's been going on, you can read Sunday's special edition email here. About Last Night... 5pm Tues 9/22: After mounting scrutiny,...